Have you ever had a conversation with someone without uttering a single word? It might sound unusual, but in fact, we all do it every day. The secret lies in the silent language of our bodies. Albert Mehrabian, a pioneer in body language studies, once stated that 55% of communication is through body language, 38% is the tone of voice and only 7% is the actual words spoken. These percentages highlight the significance of non-verbal cues in our everyday interactions. In the domain of Public Relations, effective communication is paramount. It is not merely about relaying a message but ensuring that the message is received, understood and trusted. While well-chosen words are an essential part of this equation, non-verbal communication completes the narrative.
The Silent Conversations We Have Every Day
One’s posture, facial expressions and gestures provide a wealth of information. It’s no surprise that people say, “Actions speak louder than words.” It’s crucial to remember that while words are powerful, the body often reveals the unspoken truth. As Napoleon Hill rightly put it, “Actions are the real measure of intelligence.”
For instance, think of someone slouched in a chair with their arms crossed. Even without words, you can infer a lot — they may be bored, defensive or even feeling a little chilly. On the other hand, a person leaning forward, making eye contact and nodding tells you they’re engaged and listening.
A Tale of Unspoken Understanding
In the very heart of these silent conversations, I recall a touching memory with my young daughter, Razan. Children, with their young understanding of complex verbal communication, are especially sensitive to the body’s signals. One evening, after a particularly tiring day, I found myself on our living room couch. My shoulders sagged with weight, eyes clouded with distant thoughts and periodic sighs escaped my lips. Razan, playing nearby, stopped her activity. She approached, gazed into my eyes as if reading a book, and without uttering a word, wrapped her arms around me. She didn’t inquire, “Mom, what’s wrong?” My body had already relayed the message. Her hug, pure and heartfelt spoke volumes: “I’m here, Mom. It’s okay.” It was an intimate moment, a dance of silent understanding. This interaction underscored the profound power of body language in conveying emotions and forging connections.
Cracking the Code: Common Movements and Their Meanings
Body language varies from the subtle gestures of a child to the pronounced postures of adults:
Interpreting body language, however, requires context. Factors like culture, personal habits or the situation at hand can alter a gesture’s meaning.
In our fast-paced world, the art of conversation often omits the nuances of body language, focusing purely on spoken words. By being more attuned to these silent signals, we can establish deeper connections, sidestep misunderstandings and truly comprehend the unsaid feelings and intentions of those around us.
Emojis and GIFs may rule the digital age, but the true symbol of humanity are our gestures, postures and expressions. So, in your next conversation, don’t just listen with your ears —– see with your eyes too. The story they tell might just surprise you.
Remember, as Hill well put together, our actions often weave tales much more profound than our words. Whether it’s a child like Razan or an adult friend, our bodies continually narrate silent stories. It’s upon us to listen and understand to get succeeded.
Dina Saad, teaching assistant at California State University, Fullerton, is pursuing her degree in tourism studies at Mansoura University in Egypt. Dina is an active participant in various extracurricular activities. Apart from her role in PRSSA as an outreach coordinator from 2021 to 2023, Dina dedicated her time as the vice chair of finance for the Communications Inter-Club Council at CSUF’s College of Communications. She has successfully organized numerous events such as COMMWEEK, the First Convergence for the College of Communications at CSUF, and the College of Communications Awards Ceremony. Dina’s career traces back to Egypt, where she worked in public relations for the vice president of Mansoura University. She’s academically decorated with two master’s degrees, one in tourism studies from MU and another in mass communications and research theory from CSUF. Connect with Dina on LinkedIn for further professional dialogue.